This relates to what women have to deal with--hundreds of years after Hamlet was written! As young women, we have to deal with being called "pops" or "thots" even if we are seen around too many guys, never mind kissing them, and God forbid, actually having sex with them. Like Polonius said, we must look after our sexuality if we ever want to find a life partner that will value us as women of character, and not our "body count." The reputations and negative rumors spread about us only make us less desirable to the young men around us, also relating back to Polonius's statement. Women must preserve their bodies for the man they will be with for the rest of their lives. They must fit into the role of a quiet woman--complacent, obedient, pure, shy.

This also even relates to a book I read recently, and even discussed on an Independent Reading Day, Fear of Flying. Isadora, a woman in the 1960s, deals with the conflict of being in an unhappy marriage vs. her sexual desires with various men. Women becoming divorced, let alone being adulterous, is stigmatized in her time period and she must always conform to the ideals of her family and society.
Now, I am in no way advocating multiple sexual partners but we do need to be fair when it comes to labelling genders according to their behaviors, especially with something as overrated and private as sex and virginity.








